Broadcasting beliefs

I have the perfect cure for hiccups: chug five or six swallows of water while plugging your ears. (So in addition to the water, you need either someone to hold your ears for you, or a straw to drink through while you hold your own ears.) This technique has never failed me or Clara, and we’ve used it on dozens of occasions. I’m so happy to finally have a 100%-effective hiccup solution, I tell people about it whenever I can, but they never seem as convinced as I feel like they should be. Did I not just say that it works flawlessly? That I’ve used it countless times? People believe that that’s my experience, but are reluctant to share my life-changing conclusions.

Why is that? Why is our own experience more convincing to us than to other people?

First let’s briefly explore how sharing information seems like it should work. Imagine that you try some approach to life success—you took some career advice, or you tried out a particular diet, or you started a new exercise regimen—and it works out well for you. I’m going to represent that happy state with some confetti:

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Wondering whether this strategy works for everyone, you can reason, rationally, that because it worked for you it probably works for a lot of people. (See also my post “Your Advertisement Here!“) But maybe you’re just lucky; let’s imagine that that’s the case and that for most people it doesn’t work:IMG_1119If each of you tries to guess how often that strategy works, with only your own experience to go on, you’ll get dramatically different answers:IMG_1120Fortunately, we can talk to each other, sharing information and updating our beliefs. When you and an unsuccessful person meet, you both adjust your guesses to the best fit for the data you have together.


And with each additional person you meet, sharing your experiences with each other, your probabilities adjust closer and closer to the truth.

IMG_1122IMG_1123It’s a pretty good system: by pooling our experiences, everyone ends up with accurate beliefs.

So why isn’t this how it works with real claims to the secret of success? Why do we roll our eyes with every new diet or get-rich-quick scheme that comes around? I think I understand why I am not convinced, even if I don’t doubt their proponents’ own convictions:

First, I’m probably hearing about their success via an internet testimonial, or a TED talk, or a public lecture, and while I can then update my beliefs given their experience, it doesn’t go both ways.IMG_1125

So if I’m the hundredth person hearing their story, when they haven’t also been learning from their listeners, that successful person probably has an inflated view of their strategy’s reliability, so I don’t feel like it’s right to update my beliefs as much as I would if I could fully trust theirs. (For a humorous take on this idea—and with better stick figures!—see the recent XKCD comic on Survivorship Bias.)

But there’s also a second effect that makes me skeptical. I’m only hearing their success story because it is one: people are more apt to pass along “The secret to success!” than “A thing that sounded like it could have been the secret to success but turned out not to be!” So if I just naively updated my thinking based on broadcast beliefs, I would be putting a lot more credence in the success stories than I should be.

If each unsuccessful person tells their woe to one person, but the successful person tells everybody, then the people trying to make up their minds will think success is likelier than it really is.

So here’s my two-part rule of thumb on when to be skeptical of someone’s secret to success, even when I don’t doubt that they are rationally convinced by their own experience. If the answer to either question is No, then their advice is probably less reliable than it seems.

  1. Are they collecting both success and failure stories, so as to get an accurate picture of how their advice applies to the people they are trying to reach?

So maybe if I really want to convince people that my hiccup cure works, I should add, “Let me know if you try it and it doesn’t work, so I can stop telling everyone it’s a perfect cure.” Not only would that be valuable information to me, the request would also signal that so far, no one has come forward with a counterexample. (Consider yourselves so prompted. I really would love to know if my cure isn’t as reliable as my own experience tells me it is.)

  1. Would I be as likely to hear their story if it ended in failure instead of success?

Hmm… perhaps this means I should lay off telling as many people as I can about my hiccup cure, waiting instead for them to ask me unprompted what I’ve found that works or doesn’t. Oh well, too late? Enjoy!


5 thoughts on “Broadcasting beliefs

  1. Great post, Owen! I feel like this could serve as a rebuttal to SO many “inspirational” videos that I have found annoying my endless search for more and better speeches to show in class.

    Plus, I have a competing hiccup cure that, actually, that I can provide several non-examples for from my own experience as well as many more successes — maybe 60% when I’m conducting the experiment. More like 75% when it was my dad. Because it requires a second person, I think I probably see more interaction with that advice than other types of advice.

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  2. This is a great analysis! I think there might be other reasons or times for people to be skeptical. For example, experience. I think we have all heard many ways to cure hiccups that have had various results in our own experience. This makes us wary of new methods. Another reason to be skeptical is the amount of investment that one is required to input to get the desired output. Sometimes even a good cure will seem to be more work than it’s worth.

    Anyway, I found your post because I, too, have the ultimate cure for hiccups! Only people who have cures for hiccups read cures for hiccups, apparently. I’d love some feedback on my post if you have some time. I think you might appreciate it!

    In conclusion, we need more scientific method in social conversations!


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